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Sunday, December 16, 2012

Engagement Bling

At some point in time we've all admired engagement rings and thought about what our own would be.  With all the buzz over Angelina and Jen's upcoming nuptials and their engagement bling I wondered when stars (and some of us non stars) would stop trying to go bigger and bigger until you can weight lift the rock itself, and just pick something that's just gorgeous, rather than just big enough to sink the Titanic. (Cough! Avril Lavigne! Cough! Bennifer! Just for starters!)

While I think a beautiful big diamond is a show stopper and just lovely (mine is also unexpectedly bigger than I'd originally imagined), size is not the most impressive thing.  Actually, more intriguing to me are the stories behind the rings and any other details in the settings and accents of the rings.  We know Brad took a lot of time to create the ring for Angie, so while it might not be everyone's taste, it's really meaningful to them.  And I'd be really interested to see what the full story behind Justin Thoreux's choice of ring for Jen was.  Take a look at Kate Middleton's, ahem! Katherine's (the Duchess of Cambridge) ring!  Yes, it is a large royal jewel but the idea behind it is beautiful and atypical from being just another gigantic diamond, which we all know Prince William could have afforded.  Not only is it significant to him by being his mother's ring, it's a beautiful sapphire flanked by a diamond halo in a classic shape (oval) .  I found some incredibly sweet and beautiful rings in my search and showcased them in the Polyvore collage below!  Take a look for yourself.  Does this change your mind on what you thought you always wanted or peak your interest in perhaps getting an anniversary ring or band that is different from your own engagement ring?  I found it amazing how many pretty non-conventional options there were and am still amazed by how beautiful a classic diamond solitaire (some with thoughtful details flanking the sides) always looks! Below are my favorites of the bunch and include lovely engraving details, delicately twisted shanks, interesting diamond halos and side diamond features, lovely precious gemstones and pretty metal combinations like rose gold, yellow gold, white gold and platinum.

Of course, the choice is not always up to us, right?  When I had been dating my husband for a while I'd looked up a bunch of beautiful rings and told him I wanted an antique style ring from my favorite site.  A solitaire diamond with a diamond band and engraving on the sides.

Except he thought it was "an old ring" and was not impressed.

This is the ring he ended up picking out however:



Just taken the weekend after I got engaged!


This is the blurry iPhone photo I had sent to all my friends letting them know we were finally engaged from the restaurant we were eating in, just after my husband proposed.  


Taken earlier this year for my post on Sally Hanson Nail Polish Strips.  I'm still loving the ring and the matching band! 


I noticed the shape and style were very similar to the one I originally liked, minus the engraving on the sides!  Perhaps I influenced my ring choice after all!  I absolutely love this ring and no matter what, I'd have loved it as a gesture from my husband telling me how much I meant to him and how he wanted us to spend our lives together.

As long as your ring has significance to you, that's all that matters, not the size of the center stone or the amount of diamonds in it.  I find some of the most "engaging" engagement rings are ones with classic lines or thoughtful details -- a colored stone, engraving, a classic solitaire set beautifully or even a different metal.



Engagement Bling


Gold jewelry
helzberg.com


Blue nile jewelry
bluenile.com


Gemstone ring
etsy.com


Diamond jewelry
heartsonfire.com


Engraved ring
etsy.com


Gold jewelry
mdcdiamonds.com


Lab opal jewelry
kohls.com


Cocktail engagement ring
$6,355 - astleyclarke.com


Blue nile jewelry
bluenile.com


Diamond jewelry
etsy.com



Blue nile jewelry
bluenile.com


Eternity ring
overstock.com


Aquamarine ring
$7,080 - astleyclarke.com


Diamond jewelry
jewelry.1stdibs.com




Ruby ring
jewelry.1stdibs.com


Ring
pinterest.com


Antique ring
excaliburjewelry.com


Diamond ring
pinterest.com


Emerald engagement ring
myirishjeweler.com


Round ring
betteridge.com



Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Holiday Wish List

'Tis the season to think about the holidays, whether you celebrate or not, everyone gets some time off right?  Mazel tof!! Happy holidays to all -- Christmas, Hanukkah, New Years, Kwanzaa -- whatever you celebrate enjoy it all!  Growing up, my family did not celebrate any of the holidays around this time of year except New Years, which consisted of staying up late with Dick Clark! That was pretty awesome for me.  While I may have missed the presents my classmates received or the amazing vacations they went on, I really didn't mind so much and enjoyed the time off.  And there was always New Year's Rocking Eve waiting for me!

When my husband and I got married, we got to share a lot of family time together with each others families celebrating different things and learning from different cultures.  My husband's family celebrates Christmas and there are a lot of new things for me to learn about celebrating with them.  The good news is, since my husband has been doing this forever, he takes charge of buying the gifts for his family, which is a relief!  I wouldn't even know where to start.  I'm in charge of his gifts however, which is always challenging enough.  We usually are good at dropping hints and guessing but this year, he sent me a list of stuff to get for him if I didn't have any ideas.  My first reaction was "Huh? I don't need this! I always find you great gifts!"  That takes all the fun out of it for me to see how surprised he is when he opens his presents! I love surprises but, unfortunately he does not, which always ends up causing trouble because I keep the surprises from him and he always tells me about something I wished was a surprise.  D'oh!  There is an upside to a list however, it makes it much easier to shop for the person.  Then I thought, perhaps if I gave him at least an expansive list of things I was interested in, he can pick from them and I can get good presents and still be somewhat surprised!  So I emailed him back a list of things, just in case he didn't have any idea of what I may want this year.  While I tried to stay practical, this is also a great time to ask for things I might not be ready to buy myself -- like high end designer sunglasses for example!  I might like them, but I don't think I'm ready to spend that much on them just yet.

So my list included 5 things.  Here is how I actually wrote them out in my email:


1.       A sleeker/shorter puffy coat in XS – maybe with a  cinched waist/belt
2.       Designer sunglasses like Chanel or Bulgari
3.       Cold Weather boots  - non ugly ones – size 8
4.       Cute and cozy lounge wear 
5.    A sewing machine

 A new puffy coat that's not as bulky as my old one would be an awesome gift for me since I hate the cold but love to be fashionable.  I used to think mine was great but after a few years, it's definitely become a more practical, less stylish choice and has been referred to as a sleeping bag. But boy is it warm!  Unfortunately when the cold hits, my style goes out the window in efforts to just stay warm and hibernate until the spring!

Also, after wearing the same winter boots for years, mine recently are starting to come apart.  Actually, the last time I had worn them, it took two of us to try and pry them off,  which never happened before! And the bottom part of the sole started coming off from the rest of the boot shaft. Crazy! I think that means these ones are almost done for. Finding cute ones that fit my aesthetic though will be a challenge because I'm really not into Uggs.  Never have been, never will.  Hence the specific "non ugly ones" reference in my list!  I feel the same way about Uggs as I do about Toms shoes.  *Shudder*  Hideous!

Some cute lounge wear is always a must since I love to be comfortable at home.  Don't those slipper socks and sweats look so cozy?  And a sewing machine is great because I've started taking sewing lessons and would love to make clothing in the future.  Maybe even for my own boutique retail store someday!  Dreaming keeps hope alive!

Anyhoo, that's my list. Short and sweet.  What's on yours?  Anything special you've been eying for a while? Any special family plans or trips?  This was also always a favorite time of year for my family to just get together since we all had time off. 

Don't worry, my husband won't read this blog entry until long after Christmas with his work schedule this time of year. 




Holiday Wish List

Thursday, December 6, 2012

If You Only Had 15 Items In Your Closet...

... What would they be?  I got into a fascinating conversation two weekends ago with some girlfriends about how they did not really like shopping.  This was fascinating for me since I love shopping and clothes!  Although those are not my only favorite things  -- food is definitely up there along with celebrity gossip, books, culture, travel, family and friends!  I even volunteered to go shopping with them because I think I like it even more when I can go and browse with someone else but don't have to buy!  I understand the stress of it all as well. The crowds of people, the picked over racks, the endless trying on in messy fitting rooms with bad lighting and pushy salespeople are just the tip of the iceberg.  Even online shopping can be stressful when you're not used to the sizing in certain online stores and are not sure you're actually getting what you paid for based on the image you see on the computer screen.  While I have developed my own techniques for shopping in stores and online that work for me and make it a more enjoyable experience, I realize everyone handles these things differently.  Some just avoid the process all together until it's "time" to replace something or get something you really need.

Back to our conversation though!  One of my friends mentioned that she wished she had a wardrobe of 15 things that all just went together and she wouldn't have to fuss with continual shopping and keeping up with the latest trends.  In the magic 15 closet would be clothes which were better quality and cost a bit more, seeing as you only are spending money on 15 things.  I found this really intriguing and started thinking about what items I would love to have in my closet if I were limited to 15 things.  Then I started to put together a Polyvore collage of my top 15.  Obviously, if you count accessories such as tights, socks, underwear, hats, belts, scarves, gloves, jewelry, etc., you would not have much space left for clothing so in this scenario, I ruled those out.  But I did keep in shoes and coats (which could have their own categories) to make it more interesting.  Check out my collage below.  Here's a list of my top 15 items.

1.  A nice cocktail dress for all manner of formal/cocktail occasions.
2.  A great pair of jeans. I went for a straight leg that can be worn with or without being tucked into boots.
3. A basic shift dress.  Versatile for work and cocktail wear.  The cap sleeves keep it professional but it can also be worn in the super hot summer months. 
4. One really great winter coat.  I chose a stylish coat from Burberry in a neutral camel color.  Balancing style with practicality was a challenge here because you had to pick out versatile pieces that can be both classic and fashionable.
5.  A fitted cardigan. This is a must have for me on any given day depending on whether buildings use too much air conditioning or whether you need to layer pieces in cooler weather.  Being fitted also helps this cardigan look more professional when necessary. 
6.  A classic trench with a fun color.  With my wardrobe now, since I have so many other colorful items, I tend to have more neutral coats, but here, as I only have 15 items, I thought this was a great way to add in color to a wardrobe that would otherwise look too basic and neutral. 
7.  A great pair of black pants.  No matter what fit, these have always been a must for me. 
8.  One nice blouse for pairing with suits and skirts for work or dressing up jeans. 
9.  A top for working out in. I love working out in a basic tee and realized that because I workout often enough, using one great basic tee for working out and as a casual tee to pair with other things, it wouldn't last very long!  Getting dri-fit gear is also a must if you sweat!
10.  A pair of capri running leggings for exercise.  These are a must if I want to stay in shape and can take me through the seasons.
11.  A basic white tee.   I have at least one of these in my closet at any given time and they pair well with fancy skirts and pants as well as they do with jeans.
12.  A black pencil skirt.  I live in this style skirt at work! I just add in tights and boots when the weather outside is frightful and the fire is so delightful... (And since we've no place to go, let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!  i.e. Winter time!)
13.  A classic knee high boot.  The wedge adds a balance between having a boot with a heel and one with that is flat.  I picked out a tan color so it can work well with blacks and colors all the same.
14. Classic black pumps.  These go with jeans, skirts, dresses, you name it!  I love them in black which is my go-to basic. But a tan, grey or nude would work great with many colors and styles as well.
15.  Running/exercise sneakers.  A must for anyone who works out! 

Actually, this project was much harder than I thought because I wanted to keep in some workout gear and had to consider dressing for the seasons which would include a winter coat and spring/fall jacket of some sort.  And since this dream scenario includes only a few items, I decided price would be more flexible since I have a limited amount of items, so I can spend more on quality things.  That being said, I couldn't resist the pull of Burberry, Karen Millen, Vivian Westwood or Reiss in my collage.  In the end, I realized that one or two other necessary items I might have also needed would be a black blazer which I could pair with the black pencil skirt or a full suit, considering I work as an attorney and, even though my office is business casual, a suit is necessary at times.  If I were able to go back and do it again, I might take out the shoes this time and put those in a second category with a limit of 5.

What do you think of the collage below?  If you could only live with 15 items in your closet, what items would you include in your top 15?  Is there something you absolutely cannot live without?



What's Your Top 15?


Karen Millen a line dress
karenmillen.com



Vivienne Westwood silk top
viviennewestwood.co.uk


Karen Millen long sleeve top
$130 - houseoffraser.co.uk


Vneck shirt
$42 - witchery.com.au


DFC slimming top
finishline.com


Burberry hooded coat
burberry.com




DKNY black skirt
stylebop.com


Gérard Darel wide pants
$250 - johnlewis.com


Adidas pants
$36 - debenhams.com



Asics shoes
$135 - johnlewis.com


H&M suede pumps
$48 - hm.com

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Winter White

I think this post speaks for itself, don't you? 

In any case, I'll give my two cents on why I love winter whites.  Yes, I am aware of the "rule" that white is only acceptable between Memorial and Labor Day, but doesn't that seem, um... a bit antiquated these days?  Especially when white, especially all white, looks so good during the cooler months!  Ever since J.Lo. (a.k.a. Jennifer Lopez) wore the white wool Dolce & Gabbana coat in the movie "Maid in Manhattan" I just swooned and have been enamored with white coats ever since, not to mention white outfits!  Just this morning a saw a girl in a white puffy coat and white pants and was again awed by how much I love this look!  It's amazing really, how you can dress up a look with pairing items within a single color family. 

Check out my take on keeping warm while looking cool in the Polyvore collage below!  I think every woman should own at least a pair of white pants of some sort.  Whether they be capris or linen pants for the summer or a beautifully tailored trouser that you can rock in the cooler months, this look is always an eye-catcher. I'm a huge fan of the white wide leg pant.  I'm not sure why but it just adds luxury to an outfit without having to try so hard.  Even adding in beige shoes and a beige bag along with gold (or even silver) jewelry just heightens the ensemble and highlights the all-white look without looking too white, due to those accessories.

*Sigh*  That's Amore!  





Winter Whites



Weekend Max Mara white coat
$500 - johnlewis.com


Etro slim fit pants
stylebop.com


High heels
boohoo.com


Quilted handbag
$235 - debenhams.com



Michael kor
pinterest.com

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Thanksgiving Chic

Happy Thanksgiving to all!  Here's hoping you have a wonderful holiday weekend.

Speaking of Thanksgiving, I usually try to dress up a bit for this family event, usually a skirt/dress and some tights and boots. So I thought putting together a comfy, yet chic, Thanksgiving outfit on Polyvore was just the ticket!

You can be comfortable and yet still polished with a sweater dress like the one below.  Why not pair it with some chic velvet leggings, which happen to be very festive and also warm and cozy?  Adding in a pair of shearling booties will keep your feet warm and you'll still be styling.  And what about a pop of color for your purse?  Under this sweater dress, I also thought a sparkly, sequin shell would work well, like the champagne colored bustier shown below.  'This particular bustier could run a bit risque with family, but it would only show through a few inches of the sweater dress and, if you're gathering with friends or going out to a party, it could totally work!  If you're not into the bustier underneath, any sequin tank or colorful undershirt would work!  Have fun with it!

As for my personal Thanksgiving style, I haven't decided on a dress or skirt, but I'm definitely pairing one of those with opaque black or grey tights or black leggings and my flat equestrian boots that I discussed in this earlier post

Bon Appetit! And remember, Thanksgiving comes only once a year so be guilt free with your food and pick the stuff you really love and dig in!

Dressing for the Holidays


Sequin top
$24 - fashionunion.com


Mango velvet pants
$44 - johnlewis.com


Faux suede boots
maurices.com



Sequin dress
pinterest.com